Move from victim to victor. You may have lost but you are not a loser. You may have failed but that doesn't make you a failure. Strip yourself free from the negativity that you continue to fill your soul. Greatness can come out of a great mess. You may have discord financially, relationship wise, be an addict and disfunctional. No disfunction, no disappointment, no injustice can keep you from your destiny if you have desire.
Our pasts are opportunities to create the life you truly desire. Your purpose and devine destiny are locked inside waiting to be releaesld.
Don't let your heredity stop your destiny. We all have our stories from the past, choose to beat ourselves up blaming our past, other people or our parents. This will only paralyze you preventing blocking you from acheiving your greater good.
It is your God given choice to continue being who you are or embrace each day as a divine opportunity to be all that you want and are capable of becoming.